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From A Distance

Missing You

Have you ever bothered to realize
how much you mean to me?
I care so much for you inside
and miss you so deeply.

My mind is always curious about
the way things might have been.
As days go by and time goes by,
I look back once again.

All the time I held you in my arms,
I had the whole world right there.
There you were, comforting me with
all of your charms.

was like a dream come true.
This love that I have inside my heart,
it all belonged to you!

It's funny, all those little things
I never thought I'd miss,
Like all those conversations we had,

I guess that what I'm trying to say,
is I miss and love you more each day!

It hurts me not to see you,
or not to know if you're ok.

I want you to understand
that I loved you from the start.
And I want you to know,
no matter how many miles
we may be apart,
you'll always hold a special place
in my heart.

"Life may not be the party we had hoped for...
But while we are here, we might as well dance."



Want to give yourself an instant boost? Be generous to
someone and see how great it makes you feel.

Have you been treated rudely, or been the victim of greedy
manipulation? Be generous to someone and see how quickly you get beyond that bitter, negative mind-set.

Want to make this a really great day? Then spend it taking
advantage of opportunities to give of yourself to others.

You don't need to have a lot of money or spare time or
expertise in order to be generous. There are opportunities
for sincere generosity in every situation, all day long.

With an attitude of generosity, the experience of life will
rise to a higher level of richness and beauty. Each moment
lived with generosity will be a moment lived with real and
lasting joy.

Give of yourself. And be amazed at how very much real value
you receive.

"Life may not be the party we had hoped for...
But while we are here, we might as well dance."

Merry Christmas

Because It's Christmas Tonight the stars shine for the children
And light the way for dreams to fly
Tonight our love comes wrapped in ribbons
The world is right and hopes are high

And from a dark and frosted window
A child appears to search the sky
Because it's Christmas
Because it's Christmas

Tonight belongs to all the children
Tonight their joy rings through the air
And so, we send our tender blessings
To all the children everywhere

To see the smiles and hear the laughter
A time to give, a time to share
Because it's Christmas
Because it's Christmas

For now and forever for all of the children
And for the children in us all

Tonight belongs to all the children
Tonight their joy rings through the air
And so, we send our tender blessings
To all the children everywhere

To see the smiles and hear the laughter
A time to give, a time to share
Because it's Christmas
For now and forever
For all of the children
And for the children in us all Christmas Time Is Here Christmas time is here,

Shaadi ki Dastaan

Shaadi ki Dastaan

Abhi shaadi ka pehla hi saal tha,
khushi ke maare mera bura haal tha,
khushiyaan kuch yoon umad rahin thi,
ki sambhale nahi sambhal rahi thi,

subah subah madam ka chai le kar aana
thoda sharmate hue hume need se jagana,
wo pyaar bhara hath humare ballon main
phirana, muskurate hue kehna ki darling chai to pi lo,
jaldi se ready ho jao,
aap ko office bhi hai jana.

gharwali bhagwan ka roop le kar aayi thi,
dil or dimag par poori tarah chai thi,
saans bhi lete thy to naam usi ka hota tha,
ik pal bhi door jeena dushwar hota tha.

*5 saal baad........*

subah subah madam ka chai le kar aana,
table par rakh kar jor se chilana,
aaj office jao to munna ko school chodte hue jana..............

ek baar phir wohi awaaj ayi,
kya baat hai abhi tak chodi nahi charpai,
agar munna late ho gaya to dekh lena,
munna ki teachers ko phir khud hi sambhaal lena.

na jane gharwali kaisa roop le kar aayi thi,
dil aur dimaag par kali ghata chai thi,
sans bhi lete hai to uni ka khayal hota hai,
har sama…

Christmas !!!!!!!!!

Christmas Is Remembering...

Christmas is remembering. . .
The road to Santa Claus,
The blessed time of childhood
That meant so much. . . because

It held the tinseled magic
Of fairyland array,
When all the world was laughter. . .
And life was only play.

Christmas is remembering. . .
A tree ablaze with light,
The family gathered closely
And knowing deep delight.

Exchanging gifts and sharing,
The gaiety and song
That star the festive season. . .
Each time it comes along.

Christmas is remembering. . .
Our friends who're far and near,
By giving and receiving. . .
A season always dear.

The mistletoe and holly,
As scarlet tapers glow,
The Christ Child in a manger. . .
So very long ago.

"Life may not be the party we had hoped for...
But while we are here, we might as well dance."

A Paradigm Shift

One evening a scholar was addressing the participants on the concept of work culture.

One of the participants asked the following question :

"I am a senior manager of Materials Department and I joined an organization  25 years ago as an Engineer Trainee and over the last 25 years, I have gone through every experience in the organization.

During the initial part of my career, the job was very challenging and interesting.

However, all those exciting days are gone since I do not find my joy any more interesting because there is nothing new in my job. I am now feeling bored because I am doing a routine job.

However, Sir, I am living in the same house for over forty years, I am the son for the same parents for over forty five years, I am the father for the same children for the past ten years and the husband for the same lady for the past twenty years !( the toughest job!)

In these personal roles I do not feel bored Please tell me why I am bored of the routine in the office and not in th…

7 reasons not to mess with a child

7 reasons not to mess with a childJ          Do Go thru   J ............. One day a little girl was sitting and watching her mother do the dishes at the kitchen sink. She suddenly noticed that her mother had several strands of white hair sticking out in contrast on her brunette head. She looked at her mother and inquisitively asked, "Why are some of your hairs white, Mom?" Her mother replied, "Well, every time that you do something wrong and make me cry or unhappy, one of my hairs turns white." The little girl thought about this revelation for a while and then said, "Momma, how come ALL of grandma's hairs are white?" A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales. The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small. The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale. Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a huma…


~*~ME~*~ I may not have a perfect personality, but I'm MEI may not be the most intelligent, but I'm MEI may not meet every challenge that comes along, but I'm MEI may not be "in," but I'm MEME is sensitive,ME is kind,ME is friendly, andME is caring,ME is defensive, and ME is self-righteous.ME like who ME is for the personality, not for the physique.ME like who ME is for trying not for always succeeding,ME like who ME is for not trying to be perfect,ME like who ME is for choosing true friends.ME may make mistakes, andME may love you very much,BUT ME can't change for you, only for MESo please accept ME as ME.

"I'd rather confess I'm wrong and be right, than claim I'm right and be worng."

"I'd rather confess I'm wrong and be right, than claim I'm right and be worng."

Public Speaking Tips

Public Speaking TipsEnsure your speech will be captivating to your audience as well as worth their time and attention. Videotape your presentation and analyze it. Emphasize your strong points during your presentation. Be solemn if your topic is serious. Present the desired image to your audience. Appear relaxed, even if you feel nervous. Establish rapport with your audience. If a microphone is available, adjust and adapt your voice accordingly. Master the use of presentation software such as PowerPoint well before your presentation. Persuade your audience effectively. Speak loudly and clearly. Sound confident. Maintain sincere eye contact with your audience. If what you have prepared is obviously not getting across to your audience, change your strategy mid-stream if you are well prepared to do so. Allow yourself and your audience a little time to reflect and think. Keep audience interested throughout your entire presentation. Remember that an interesting speech makes time fly, but a …

Is The Sun In Love With Me

Is the sun in love with me??                                    I think the sun's in love with me.                                    Co'z it follows me everywhere,                                    Not a spot or a cornor it would leace,                                    He'd just stand there and stare.                                    Even when cloudy is the day,                                    Not a bird or beast in sky,                                    When I step out of the door of my house,                                    He'd peek from behind a dark cloud and smile.                                    He's always smiling down on me,                                    There's not a day he isn't there,                                     He's always up there in the sky,                                     To catch a glimpse of me everywhere.                                     But maybe the sun hates me so,                                     Co'z…

Ajeeb Larka Hoon

Ajeeb larka hoon khud ko jalaana chahtaa hoonMay khud ko rakh ker kaheen bhool jana chahtaa hoonMere naseeb ki khushiyaan bhi kab mili mujh koBas ab to umer bher aansoo bhana chahtaa hoonNajanay kitni mohabbat hai ranj-o-ghum se mujheyKoi bhee dard ho dil may chupana chahtaa hoonBaha baha ke ye aasnoo bikhar chuka hoon bahutSimat ke zaat may ab muskurana chahtaa hoonJisay eik umer dil mai chupa ke rakha haiWo raaz aaj may sab ko batana chahtaaa hoonWahee hay yaad jo acha kaha hay logon neBaqi saaray sitam bhool jana chahtaa hoonMujhe zamanay ne pathar samjh liya hai magerMai eik larka hoon sab ko batana chahtaa hoonJo mujh se rooth chuki hain zamanay ki khushiyaanTo may bhee un khushiyoon se rooth jana chahtaa hoonKoi to ho jo lagaye mujhay seenay seKisi ko mai bhee apnay ghum sunana chahtaa hoonTu apnay dil ke her eik dar ko khool dayMai dard ban ker teray dil mai aana chahtaa hoon
"I'd rather confess I'm wrong and be right, than claim I'm right and be worng."


What greater thing is there for two human souls that to feel that they are joined... to strengthen each other... to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories. 

   In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing. 

   For one human being to love another that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks; the ultimate, the last test and proof; the work for which all other work is but preparation. 

   There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread. 

   Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low. 

   You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love. 

   Treasure the love you receive above all.
It will survive long after your good health has vanished.

   The person who tries to live alone will not…

I Will Learn - Will You ?


I will learn that true happiness is not always to achieve my goals, but to learn to appreciate with what I have achieved.

I will learn that I should control my attitude, and not let my attitude control me.

I will learn that to be rich is not to have the most, but to need the least

I will learn that it is futile to compare myself to others, because there is always someone better or worse than I am.

I will learn that it takes years to build trust, and a few seconds to destroy it.

I will learn that there are people who love me very much, but simply do not know how to show their feelings.

I will learn to forgive by practising forgiveness.

I will learn that I cannot make anyone love me, but learn to let myself be loved.

I will learn that what is most valuable is not what I have in my life, but who I have in my life.

I will learn that it only takes a few seconds to hurt people I love, and that it can take years to heal.

I will learn that money can buy everything but happiness.

I will learn th…

My Words

Dream Girl

I remember the girl of my dreams found my soul
and she placed my heart back in my "missing-heart hole"
and my child like passion and wonder and pride
returned, and i started to glow from inside

She's the girl of my dreams
she's the one that i love
she's the girl of my dreams
angel girl from above

And her heart's always gentle
and her heart's always pure
and her spirit is strong
and her mind, always sure

And we fly through the stars in my dreams
while i sleep exploring the universe vast, dark and deep

Will you fly through the stars with me, dream girl tonight?

Will you rest in my arms till the morning light, shines and reminds

Through the sun's golden beams that love doesconquer all if we follow our dreams

A Friend's Smile
When everything's gone wrong today,
And no one reacts to anything you say,

And no matter how much you scream and cry,
the world seems to be passing you by,

And no one seems to notice or care,
that you're trying to be heard over des…

10 Steps To Better Decision Making

10 Steps To Better Decision Making
Considering The Possibilities 1. Making a difficult choice can seem harrowing when you feel you're working alone. Involve others in your decision making by asking for criticism and seeking advice from those who can approach the choice from a fresh perspective. Listen to opinions that fall on both sides of the topic at hand. You may also want to consult an expert.

2. Learn from your mistakes as well as your triumphs. Examine decisions you have made in the past as they will teach you more than you will learn from most other sources. Though some decisions will not seem important, all decisions shape our lives and should be regarded as educational. Apply that knowledge to your current dilemma.

3. A good decision acted upon in a timely matter is always better than a great one acted upon too late. It is important to recognize that you will never know enough to make the perfect decision. Don't become paralyzed by your need to foresee all possible ou…


"Everyone has a talent, what is rare is the courage to follow the talent to the dark place where it leads." (Erica Jong) "The most instructive experiences are those of everyday life." (Friedrich Nietzsche) "I have learnt silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet strange, I am ungrateful to these teachers." (Kahlil Gibran) Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach a man to fish and he will eat for the rest of his life." (Chinese Proverb) "Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear." (Ambrose Redmoon) "I not only use all the brains I have but all that I can borrow." (W. Wilson) "If you want happiness for a lifetime, help someone else." (Chinese Proverb) "Education makes people easy to lead, but difficult to drive; easy to govern, but impossible to enslave." (Henry Peter Broughan) "A …


Men Are Just Happier People-- What do you expect from such simple creatures? Your last name stays put. The garage is all yours. Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack. You are first in line to the throne. You can never be pregnant. You can wear a white T-shirt to a water theme park. You can wear NO shirt to a water theme park. Car mechanics tell you the truth. The world is your urinal. You never have to drive to another petrol station restroom because this one is just too icky. You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt. Same work, more pay. Wrinkles add character. Wedding dress £1,000+. Morning suit rental-£100
People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them. The occasional well-rendered belch is practically expected. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet. One mood all the time. Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat. You know stuff about tanks. A five-day holiday requires only …

It is not easy

To apologize,
To begin over,
To be unselfish,
To take advice,
To admit error,
To face a sneer,
To be charitable,
To keep trying,
To be considerate,
To avoid mistakes,
To profit from one's mistakes,
To forgive and forget,
To think and then act,
To keep out of a rut,
To make the best of little,
To subdue an unruly temper,
To shoulder a deserved blame,

"I don't have to be what somebody else wants me to be, and I am not afraid to be what i want to be."

"I don't have to be what somebody else wants me to be, and I am not afraid to be what i want to be."

You complete Me


Oh how I keep you near, so deep in my heart
How I seem to hold the World so it won't fall apart.

My life, My love oh so true
What would I do if I didn't have you.
I live each day thinking of you
I dream each night of only us two.

If I could take the sun and the stars
I would hold them close and make them ours.

Our life and our love, it is such a treasure

My heart so full it can't be measured.

Darling if I could, I'd take away your fears
and hold you like no other
and wipe away your tears.

As each day passes and turns into night
I think of our love and how it's so right.
I look at this world then I look at you
My heart and my love so full and anew.

You complete me

When I first met you, I had given up on love,
But you were sent to me, an angel from above.

You put a constant smile on my face and made me forget the pain,
You knew how to make me laugh, you washed away the rain.

I fell in love with you, almost at first sight,
My thoughts of you were constant, both day a…

Principles of Life....

1. Winning isn't everything. But wanting to win is. 2. You would achieve more, if you don't mind who gets the credit. 3. When everything else is lost, the future still remains. 4. Don't fight too much. Or the enemy would know your art of war. 5. The only job you start at the top is when you dig a grave. 6. If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for everything. 7. If you do little things well, you'll do big ones better. 8. Only thing that comes to you without effort is old age. 9. You won't get a second chance to make the first impression. 10. Only those who do nothing do not make mistakes. 11. Never take a problem to your boss unless you have a solution. 12. If you are not failing you're not taking enough risks. 13. Don't try to get rid of bad temper by losing it. 14. If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not foryou. 15. Those who don't make mistakes usually don't make anything 16. There are two kinds of failures. Those who …

~*~ The Impact Of Inferiority ~*~

The Impact Of Inferiorityby Heidy SchmidtThe naked truth is the final trait of reality.

Once, proud was I.
As strong as an ox.
As compassionate as a priest.
As understanding as a therapist.
I have succumbed to the lowest form of humanity.
Courageous in my world of lies,
my faith being deceit.

Like partners, I have intertwined you with me,
creating spontaneous combustion within my conscience.
I have worn myself out by running from the truth.
And now the mirrored image haunts me.

I am without speech, for my words are offensive.
I am without sight, for it is clouded.
I am without heart, for it has hardened.
I am without sound, for it has muffled.
I am without soul, for it has drowned.

"I don't have to be what somebody else wants me to be, and I am not afraid to be what i want to be."